Wars
of the Laptop Bombers
Today's
Stories
February 26
/ 27, 2005
Noam Chomsky
Nuclear
Terror at Home
February 25,
2005
Roger Burbach
Murder
in the Amazon
Behzad Yaghmaian
Iranian Distrust of America: 50 Years in the Making
Kurt Nimmo
Conclave of the Brats
Joshua Frank
Diagnosing the Green Party
John Farley
How to Stop the War in Iraq: Punish Pro-War Politicians
Lawrence Reichard
The D'Aubuisson Memorial: Flowers of Evil
Pratyush Chandra
The Royal Coup in Nepal and Global Imperialist Designs
David Smith-Ferri
When
the Battlefield has No Borders
Website of
the Day
The 2005 Election in 3-D
February 24,
2005
Omar Waraich
The
Galloway Saga: Smearing an Anti-War Politician
Brian Cloughley
Bribing and Twisting Amerian Journalists: Valerie Plame &
30 Pieces of Silver
Tom Wright
Torture Nation: Abu Ghraib, a Year Later
Sharon Smith
The Anti-War Movement After Kerry: Learning All the Wrong Lessons
Dave Lindorff
Do These Roosting Chickens Have Flu?
Fred Feldman
Lynching Ward Churchill
James Reiss
On Hearing About a Plot to Assassinate President Bush
Diane Christian
Bad
Blood: Ritual & Sexual Torture in Iraq
Website of
the Day
The Gray Line
February 23,
2005
Werther
The
Poisoned Well: What the CIA's Nazi Files Can Tell Us About Iraq
W. John Green
A Salvador Option for Iraq? How Negroponte Changes the Ground
Rules
James Petras
A New Face to Bush Foreign Policy?
Conn Hallinan
Cornering the Dragon: the Return of the China Lobby
Joe Pietri
Cannabis: the Goose that Lays Golden Eggs (For Consumers and
Cops)
Louis Proyect
Hunter Thompson and the "New" Journalism
Alexander Cockburn
Hunter
S. Thompson and Gonzo
Website of
the Day
Did You Make the Blacklist? Why Not?
February 22,
2005
Naseer Aruri
The
Politics of the Hariri Assassination: Remapping the Middle East
Richard Manning
The
Economy of Hunger: Starvation is Part of the Economic Plan
William A.
Cook
Righteous
Racism Running Rampant
Paul Craig Roberts
The Agents of Instability
Ken Krayeske
Dr. Thompson is Out
Dave Zirin
How the Owners Destroyed the NHL
Kirkpatrick
Sale
Imperial
Entropy: the Collapse of the American Empire
February 21,
2005
Hunter S. Thompson
"He
Was A Crook"
John Ross
Mexico:
the Pentagon's Proxy Army in Iraq
Ward Churchill
What Did I Really Say? Why Did
I Say It?
Dr. Teresa
Whitehurst
Military Recruiting on Channel One: Geometry 101, Brought to
You by the US Navy
David Swanson
Fighting for a Living Wage, State by State
Dave Lindorff
All the News That's Fit to Fake
Stew Albert
Fear and Loathing: HST
Michael Neumann
Strategies
in Palestine: a Shrinking Pie in the Sky
February 19
/ 20, 2005
Alexander Cockburn
Back
to Salem: Paul Shanley and the Return of "Recovered Memory"
Kathleen Christison
Struggling
for Justice in Palestine
Ted Honderich
On Being Persona Non Grata
Gary Leupp
Self-Hating Gays: Welcome to the White House & Welcome to
Commit Suicide
Don Santina
Reparations for the Blues
Jennifer Roesch
John Negroponte: Dirty Warrior
Scott Richard
Lyons
Ward
Churchill and the Identity Police
Chris Clarke
Ward Churchill and Liberal Outrage
George Beres
Censorship in the Land of Wayne Morse: Gagging W. Churchill in
Oregon
Harry Browne
The Belfast Heist: the Plot Unravels
Manuel García,
Jr.
Who Killed Rafik Hariri?
Mark Scaramella
Lessons from the Hidden Afghan War
Michael Donnelly
Whatever Happened to John Edwards?
John Pilger
First, They Attack the Past
Norman Madarasz
Death Wish for Reform in Brazil?
Surendra Devkota
The Monarchy in Nepal
Deborah Rich
How Anti-GMO Ballot Measures May Miss the Mark
Fred Gardner
When Dr. Tod Met Merle Haggard
CounterPunch
News Service
About King Mswati: Political Developments in Swaziland
Richard Oxman
CounterPunching Arthur Miller
Poets' Basement
Albert, Giebel, Tripp, Engel and Orkin
February 18,
2005
Ben Moxham
In
East Timor, the Nightmare Continues
Dave Lindorff
The
Scum Also Rises: the Bloody Career of John Negroponte
Larry Birns
Negroponte: a Resume of Death Squads, Deceptions and Bribery
Gregory Elich
N, Korea's Phantom Nukes and the US's Subversion of Diplomacy
Samuel Logan / John Meyers
The Future of Colombia's Paramilitary Death Squads
Nicole Colson
Shock and Awe on Civil Liberties: From Lynne Stewart to Ward
Churchill
Suzan Mazur
Whose National Security Are We Talking About?
Mickey Z.
"One
Man Has Stopped Killing"
February 17,
2005
Joshua Frank
Hogtying
of the Deaniacs
Paul Craig
Roberts
Bush's
Willing Sychophants: the Conservative Media
Robert Fisk
Under
the Shadow of Death in Lebanon
Christopher
Brauchli
Where
Time Stands Still: Kinsey and Darwin in Cobb County, GA
Dr. Teresa
Whitehurst
Military
Recruitment TV: Why Send Them to College, When Your Kid Can be
Cannon Fodder?
Alison Weir
Russia, Israel and Media Omissions
Ahrar Ahmad
A Review of Shahid Alam's "Is There an Islamic Problem?"
Saul Landau
An
Interview with Cuban VP Ricardo Alarcon: "The US Tramples
the Laws It Wrote"
Website of the Day
Petition to Support Ward Churchill
February 16,
2005
Robert Fisk
Lebanon:
a Battlefield for the Wars of Others
Kevin Zeese
Creating a Real Ownership Society: Share the Wealth; Protect
Retirement
Gary Leupp
Meanwhile, in Nepal...
Ron Jacobs
Why the Iranian Opposition Should Not Trust the Bush Administration
Jessica Leight
Oil-Flush Chavez Begins to Strut His Stuff
Greg Moses
Houston, You've Got a Problem: Documenting Voting Irregularities
in Texas
Mark Engler
The Last Porto Alegre
Jack McCarthy
Where's the Outrage About Pat? Buchanan Does a Churchill
Bill Christison
US
Foreign Policy Dangerously Slanted Toward Israel
Website of the Day
The
World is Melting: a Photo Survey by Gary Braasch
February 15,
2005
CounterPunch
News Service
Dean
a "Safe" Moderate, Says NYT Citing CounterPunch
Robert Fisk
The
Killing of Mr. Lebanon
Uri Avnery
"Sharm-al-Sheikh,
We Have Come Back Again"
Stan Cox
Fighting Big Pharma in Little Digwal
Mickey Z.
Radio
Active North of the Border: an Interview with Chris Cook
Dave Zirin
Bashing Bush: Jose Canseco Comes Clean
Nadia Martinez
Ending
World Poverty? Opening at the World Bank, Apply Now
Lila Rajiva
"Little Eichmanns" and the 'Harijan': the Danger of
Magical Thinking in Politics
Paul Craig
Roberts
The
American Job Sell Out
February 14,
2005
Robert Jensen
Ward
Churchill: Right to Speak Out; Right About 9/11
Brian Cloughley
Kuwait's Freedom, Bush-style
Patrick Cockburn
Outcome
of the Iraqi Elections: Shortages, Corruption, Guerrilla War
Gary Leupp
Post-election Iraq: What Next?
Michael Donnelly
Sacred Nature: Just Another Commodity?
Dave Lindorff
When Bush Came to My Neighborhood
Elaine Cassel
The
Lynne Stewart Verdict
February 12
/ 13, 2005
Alexander Cockburn
Ward
Churchill's Genes
Saul Landau
Alarcon
Speaks: an Interview with the Vice President of Cuba
Paul Craig
Roberts
Nothing
to Fear But Bush Himself
Patrick Cockburn
Two Years After the Fall of Saddam, the Resistance Controls All
Major Roads into Baghdad
John Feffer
Bush
v. N. Korea: Round Two
Mickey Z.
Right to Remain Silent; Duty to Speak
Kurt Nimmo
Viva la Cucaracha!
Fred Gardner
Waiting for Raich
Dave Zirin
Fighting the New Republic(ans)
John Chuckman
Hiroshima, Mon Amour
Ben Tripp
A Leftist on the Bush Payroll
Carol Norris
"Buddy, Can You Spare a Dwarf?"
Robert Fisk
No Middle East Peace Without Justice
Frank / Chowkwanyun
Muzzled Activist in an Age of Terror: the Case of Sherman Austin
Mike Whitney
Condi's Euro Tour
Deborah Frisch
A Psychologist's Defense of Ward Churchill
Niranjan Ramakrishnan
Reading Khomeini in Colorado
Christine TenBarge
What's So Special About Ward?
Ron Jacobs
Curtis Mayfield's Train to Jordan
Dr. Susan Block
Chemistry of Love: a Valentine's Greeting
Poets' Basement
Louise, Smith-Ferri, Ford and Albert
Website of the Weekend
Free Sherman
February 11,
20055
Manuel Garcia,
Jr
The
Eight Percent War
Kurt Nimmo
Ann
Coulter's Racism: Where's Geronimo When You Really Need
Him?
Dave Lindorff
Guckert
or Gannon? The Perfect Plant; He Fit Right In
Larry Birns
War is Peace; Slavery is Freedom: Democracy According to Elliott
Abrams
Bill Quigley
Twenty Questions: a Social Justice Quiz
Tom Barry
Bush's State of Delusion
Jennifer Van
Bergen
Lynne
Stewart's Conviction Hurts Us All
February 10,
2005
Dave Lindorff
What
Academic Freedom?
Christopher Brauchli
The Love of Slaughter: From Rwanda to Iraq
Patrick Cockburn
In Baghdad, It's Easy to Get Killed
Nicole Colson
Have the Democrats Surrendered on Abortion Rights?
Suzan Mazur
More
on the Assassination of Lumumba from Mr. Garsin of Kinshasha
Michael Donnelly
Salvaging an Opposition
Mike Stark
Driving Ossie Davis: "Give Them a Little Truth, a Little
Hope"
Greg Moses
Taking
Jesus Back from the Hijackers
Website of
the Day
The Missionary Positions
February 9,
2005
Jeffrey St.
Clair
Duck
and Cover Redux: Bunker Busters and City Levellers
Mickey Z.
What Ward Churchill Didn't Say
John Ross
Hecho
en Mexico: the Iraqi Election
Tom Barry
Ambassador of Lies: Elliott Abrams, the Neocon's Neocon
Conn Hallinan
The
Coup in Nepal: Nursing the Pinion
Patrick Cockburn
Sistani's Vision for Iraq: Cricket is Fine, But Chess is "Absolutely
Forbidden"
Steen Sohn
Danish PM Says It's OK for Israel to Violate UN Resolutions
Tim Wise
Reflections on Empire and Uppity Indians
Website of
the Day
Support Antiwar.com
February 8,
2005
Patrick Cockburn
Shia/Kurd
Coalition to Dominate New Iraqi Govt.: "It's an Electoral
Pact, Not a Party"
Brian Cloughley
Out
of the Mouths of Generals: "It's Fun to Shoot Some People"
Steve Breyman
Against the Selfishness of the "Ownership Society"
Harry Browne
"Don't
Get on that Plane!": Soldiers Seek Asylum in Ireland
Doug Giebel
"We Love Free Speech in America": the People, the President
and Ward Churchill
Nate Collins
The Censorship of Ward Churchill and Dancehall Reggae: It's the
Same Beast
Dave Lindorff
It's Time for a Labor-Oriented Newspaper
David Smith-Ferri
Sanctions and the Health Crisis in Iraq
February 7,
2005
Paul Craig
Roberts
Bush's
War on Jobs
Carolyn Baker
The New McCarthyism on Campus: Churchill and the Attack on Higher
Ed
Joshua Frank
Marc Cooper's Hit List: First Mumia; Now Ward Churchill
Mickey Z.
Warning: More Hate Speech from W. Churchill
Patrick Cockburn
The
Kidnapping Gangs of Iraq
Mike Whitney
Tom Friedman: Scribe for New Age Imperialism
Stacie Jonas
Pinochet: Fit to be Tried
Dave Zirin
A Miserable Super Sunday: Clinton, Bush and the FBI
Tariq Ali
Imperial
Delusions
February 5
/ 6, 2005
Alexander Cockburn
Ward
Churchill and the Mad Dogs
Kurt Nimmo
A Ward Churchill Kind of Day
Joshua Frank
Liberals Trash Ward Churchill
P. Sainath
Mumbai's Man-Made Tsunami
Patrick Cockburn
Sistani's Triumph; Allawi's Bust
Laura Carlsen
Bush, Rice and Latin America
Dave Lindorff
How the NYT Killed the Bush Bulge Story
Pamela Olson
West Bank Story
Behzad Yaghmaian
The Future of Sudanese Refugees in the West
Saul Landau / Farrah Hassen
A Threatened UN in King George's Court
Roger Burbach
World Social Forum: a Tale of Two Presidents
Robert Fisk
History by Laptop
David Swanson
James Forman and the Liberal-Labor Syndrome
Justin E.H. Smith
Gay Marriage: a Report from Canada
Cacie Hart
The "State" of the Union: More War and a Ban on Love
Ron Jacobs
Chairman Bob Avakian: a Revolutionary Life
Mickey Z.
Viewing America from the Outside
Ben Tripp
Republican Heroes: a New Breed of Good Guy
Ben Sonnenberg
France at the End of the Devil's Decade: Renoir's Rules of the
Game
Poets' Basement
Smith-Ferri, Davies, Collins, & Albert
Website of
the Weekend
John Trudell: How to Earn a 17,000 Page FBI File
February 4,
2005
Brian Cloughley
The
Army Symphonist: "Sometimes the Only Way to Change the Behavior
of Someone Like That is to Kill Them"
Bill Christison
Election
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Elaine Cassel
Did Zoloft Make Him Do It?
Jacob Levich
Chomsky and the Draft
Kanak Mani Dixit
Return of the Royalists in Nepal
Ron Jacobs
The
Downward Spiral in Iraq
February 3,
2005
Ward Churchill
On
the Injustice of Getting Smeared: a Campaign of Fabrications
and Gross Distortions
Sharon Smith
Resisting
Soldiers Need Our Support
Mickey Z.
Leslie
Gelb Asks Iraq: Who's Your Daddy?
Mike Whitney
President of Alienation: a Desperate State of the Union
Jenna Orkin
9/11 the Sequel: the Toxic State of Lower Manhattan
Saul Landau
Elections Won't Prevent Civil War in Iraq
Yitzhak Laor
Strange is the Silence
Dave Lindorff
The
Assault on Social Security: a New Campaign of Lies
February 2,
2005
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/ Kevin Coe
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Brand of Christianity
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A History Lesson from the NYT
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2005
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Weekend Edition
February 26 / 27, 2005
All About Female Ejaculation
It
Always Rains in California
By
Dr. SUSAN BLOCK
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot
Deborah Sundahl
Hunter House Press (2003)
If G-Spot Female Ejaculation is one
of the Great Sexual Wonders of the World, then Deborah Sundahl
is Wonder Woman. In her book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot,
she invites all women and their lovers to enjoy this once esoteric
phenomenon that is just now flooding the world with pleasure.
Ladies: Uncork your champagne!
Gentlemen: Get ready to get wet!
Called by a variety of names,
from the poetic to the worshipful to the silly to the crass,
"Female Ejaculation" is variously called the Nectar
of Aphrodite, the Fountain of Venus and the Champagne of Sex.
I call it the Geyser of Love, a sparkly spritz of pussy perfume,
a waterfall of womanhood, a broken fire hydrant, a vaginal hurricane,
a rainforest treat, a baptismal sexual revelation. Yes indeed,
it's Holy Water, Brothers and Sisters, and it's good for the
soul, not to mention the skin.
Squirting! Spurting! Spraying!
Splashing. Gushing.... Female Ejaculation is carnal proof that
a woman's ability to hit her lover right between the eyes with
her orgasmic juice is equal to that of a man. Often, female ejaculation
is even more profuse and forceful than the male variety. Thus,
its importance is not only erotic, but political, as it is tangible--not
to mention tasty--evidence of female sexual power.
Yes, indeed, Sisters: One political
message of female ejaculation is: lay down your arms, pull off
your panties and shoot the gun between your legs! And while you're
at it, you could try getting your man to lay down his arms by
baptizing him in the healing holy waters of your liquid love.
Hey, couldn't hurt to try. That means you, Sister Laura Dubya
B. On second thought, you could just piss on George.
Speaking of urine, of course,
that's what the naysayers say this is. Over the years, the subject
of G-spot female ejaculation has stimulated a thunderstorm of
debate among sex researchers, doctors, sex educators and porn
stars. Detractors insist that there is no G-Spot, that women
who squirt are just peeing while they're coming, and all this
hoopla over G-spot female ejaculation is nothing but a glorified
golden shower.
But those of us who have experienced
the power and glory of G-spot female ejaculation-giving or receiving--know
that it exists. This is not a matter of faith, Brothers and Sisters,
this is the science of sex. We're still waiting for a detailed
chemical analysis by a chemical lab (and I hereby offer my studio
as a place for any reputable chemist to gather specimens). But
in the meantime, we're not holding back the floodgates. Those
of us who "believe" in squirting believe it because
we can see it, we can smell it (and it doesn't smell like pee!),
we can taste it, and we can feel it. And it feels good. Yes,
it does.
And this *feel-good* aspect
is perhaps another reason that the naysayers have held sway over
the years. Female ejaculation is a pure recreational pleasure
that has no direct role in procreation, except that women who
squirt may, over the millennia, have procreated more, simply
because we tend to enjoy sex more.
Throughout history, prominent
scientists and philosophers have reported experiencing the forceful
release of fluids from the vagina during sex. We can begin with
the Western world's most famous ancient scientist, Aristotle,
who wrote about the phenomenon of women's vaginal expulsions
during sex, maintaining that they did not have the appearance
or aroma of urine, nor did they stain the lady's toga.
The first modern description
of female ejaculation came from a 17th century physician from
the Netherlands (just going to show that the Dutch have been
open-minded about sex for a long time). Dr. Regnier DeGraaf wrote
about the urethra being pierced by large ducts through which
fluids are discharged, "occasionally in large quantities."
Sounds like Mrs. DeGraaf must have been soaking the sheets.
In 1950, a German obstetrician,
Dr. Ernest Grafenberg, found a spot within the vagina which he
soon named after himself: the G-spot. He discovered that stimulation
of the G-spot could lead to expulsion of fluid from the urethra.
"Large quantities of a clear, transparent fluid expelled
not from the vulva, but out of the urethra in gushes." Sounds
like Mrs. G was a gusher And if it wasn't Mrs. G--well, I won't
go there.
Now we have another important
pioneer upon the slippery path of G-spot female ejaculation:
Deborah Sundahl, whose discovery of her own ejaculate in a puddle
on the floor led her on a wild, soaking wet journey into the
center of an orgasmic storm.
Deborah is the master, not
just of the physical side (though she's quite a long distance
squirter herself), but of understanding and explaining how G-spot
female ejaculation works in terms of the body, the mind and the
soul.
In fact, I first heard the term "G-spot female ejaculation"
from Deborah herself back in 1992 at a Lifestyles Convention,
having wandered into her seminar quite by accident. I had never
heard of such a thing as women having "squirting" orgasms,
at least not on purpose. Neither had anyone else in the seminar.
Now it seems like everybody's
squirting, or trying to squirt, or trying to get their lover
to squirt, or asking about how to do it. And Deborah is the Godmother
of the Squirting Mafia, the Go-To-Gal of the 21st Century Explosion
in Female Ejaculation.
Over the years, she's produced
three videos on the subject. And now, finally, she has written
a book. Though it goes into some of the history and mythology
of female ejaculation, it is primarily a "how to" book,
and in this respect, I must give Female Ejaculation & the
G-Spot a resounding and very personal endorsement. What I mean
is, it works!
Learning about sex from books
isn't for everybody. But books have always helped me with my
own sexuality. I learned how to have my first orgasm from Betty
Dodson's Sex
for One (then entitled Liberating Masturbation). Now I've
learned how to squirt from Deborah's book. I must admit that
hosting a "Squirt Salon" with her on my show also helped,
and so does having a husband who adores it. But it was the book
that got me started.
I should also confess that
I'd ejaculated before, but only with literal hands-on help from
another expert and friend, Axel (The G-Man) Braun. Never had
I done it on my own, at least not voluntarily. Deborah's book
taught me how to do to that; that is, how to make myself squirt.
My very first self-propelled female ejaculation experience, with
Deborah's book in one hand as my other hand rubbed and pressed
my G-spot, soaked my panties and the towel I was sitting on,
and seemed to make the police helicopter circling above me screech
to a halt in the sky.
Since then, I've been able
to squirt voluntarily during sex, and even on the show. During
our Squirt Salon, I soaked the cameraman. So did my other guests,
Squirting Stars Annie Body and Leila Swan.
If you're also the type that
learns sexual techniques from reading instructions and ogling
diagrams, and if you really want to learn to squirt or if you
want to help your female lover to squirt, Deborah Sundahl's Female
Ejaculation and the G-Spot is the book for you (if you prefer
videos, you might want to check out our Squirt Salon). I believe
that any woman who really wants to squirt can do it. But just
because it's "natural" doesn't mean every woman can
do it without help. Just as many women, like me, need to learn
how to have an orgasm, most of us need to learn how to
ejaculate. And guys who are interested need to learn how to help.
As with any kind of learning,
the first thing you need is motivation. Some, maybe most, women
are just not motivated to do this, and that's fine. You don't
have to ejaculate to be a very happy, orgasmic, sexual woman.
Some women don't have time, of course. When you're worried about
where your next meal is coming from, squirting is not at the
top of your list of things to do. For some, it's "against
their religion" (which says only men should wear the pants
and do the squirting in the family). Some women think men don't
like it. Fact is that some men do; some don't. The ones that
do tend to be the kind that really enjoy and seek out women's
pleasure, and aren't too fussy about getting soaked.
Speaking of which, there are
practical issues. Some women just don't like sleeping on wet
sheets. I confess this to be one of my own problems with squirting
regularly. Female ejaculate doesn't stain, but it does tend to
soak everything within a 1-6 foot radius; just think of spilling
a glass of water in bed. You can put a towel down, but a really
good squirt soaks right through the towel. Best to do it in the
bath, on a nice clean floor, on the roof, or best of all, in
a bed you won't be sleeping in that night.
Face it, G-spot female ejaculation
is one of those decadent pleasures, like fresh oysters, that
require the right circumstances and preparation, as well as post-pleasure
clean-up. Is it worth it? Well, aren't fresh oysters worth it,
at least occasionally? Yes, they can be bitches to crack open,
but if you succeed, you have yourself a real treat. So, isn't
reaching a new height in sexual pleasure worth a little effort?
I think so. But then, I love fresh oysters. At least, occasionally.
Once you've got the motivation,
you might find yourself squirting like a sprinkler system with
just a little concentration and some good G-spot rubbing sex.
More likely, you'll need some instruction, which you can obtain
through books, videos, the personal touch, whatever works for
you. Maybe this little article is enough to get you going, or
perhaps you need to read Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot
and/or watch a video on the subject. Some of you may need
more instruction than others. Some of you may have pyschological
or physiological *learning disabilities* that plug up your porthole,
so to speak. Don't be discouraged. If you really want to squirt,
eventually you will. Every woman can. Most of us hold it back
for myriad reasons, good and bad, crazy and sane, conscious and
unconscious. But we can all squirt. Remember: the human body
is about 75 per cent H2O. It's just a question of letting a little
out.
Yes, indeed, Brothers &
Sisters, Lovers & Sinners. Squirt for joy! Squirt for peace.
Flood the world with pleasure. Cover the earth in cum. At least,
occasionally.
Dr. Susan Block is a sex educator, cultural commentator,
host of The Dr. Susan Block Show and author of The 10 Commandments
of Pleasure. Visit her website at http://www.drsusanblock.com
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